In the midst of celebrating the U.S. Supreme Court’s gay marriage rulings last week, Jen Jones called her fiancee Laura Meadows and popped the question a second time.
Jones, communications director at Equality N.C. and a Carrboro resident, told Meadows she wanted to legally tie the knot next month — not in a year, as they had originally planned. Meadows agreed.
The court’s invalidation of a key part of the Defense of Marriage Act is expected to give many federal benefits of marriage, including Social Security and inheritance rights, to married same-sex couples.
But Jones said questions surround the status of her upcoming marriage — and the marriages of all gay couples living in the 35 states, including North Carolina, that ban same-sex marriage.
Attorneys and legal experts are grappling with the federal definition of marriage and whether it should recognize a couple’s state of residence or the state where the marriage took place.
“There is a myriad of confusion across the nation about the implications of DOMA,” Jones said.
Since the court decision, President Barack Obama has directed his administration to press for federal recognition of all legally married couples, regardless of where they live.
“When you’re married, you’re married,” said Evan Wolfson, founder and president of the national Freedom to Marry Coalition.
“It doesn’t sputter in and out like cell phone service, depending on what state you’re in.”