Folk, a UNC senior, and her fiancee, Danielle Martin, a recent George Washington University graduate, are starting to plan their wedding for next May.
Although the preparation still brings challenges — like finding everything from a bakery to a venue that accepts same-sex couples — Friday was a break from the chaos.
“There’s no reason that you can’t take a minute and be happy,” Folk said. “This is something that affects my life in a huge way — and I’m happy.”
The Supreme Court of the United States decided June 26 that same-sex couples have the right to marry in all 50 states.
The 5-4 decision granted that state bans on gay marriage are unconstitutional under the 14th Amendment and that all states must recognize marriage licenses of gay and lesbian couples.
Gay marriage has been legal in North Carolina since October 2014, but the Supreme Court ruling acts as a final affirmation to N.C. couples who still had to worry about traveling across state borders or the possibility of an appeals decision overturning their right to marry.
“It’s nice to be seen as equal in the eyes of the law,” said Al Thorn, owner of Triangle Web Printing in Durham, which prints The Daily Tar Heel. “March 6” is engraved into Thorn’s wedding ring — the date he and his husband eloped.
Thorn said after N.C. marriage equality was achieved last year, he started hearing of a bill in the legislature that would allow magistrates to opt out of officiating same-sex marriages based on religious beliefs.