Though I doubt those were N.C. Gov. Mike Easley's exact words when he met with a coalition of mayors from across the state last week, the idea remains.
North Carolina is in a fiscal crisis. And if the state government is going to have to suffer, they are going to pass the pain around.
That translated into Gov. Easley's announcement Feb. 5 that the state would withhold payments of more than $200 million to local governments.
Municipalities expected to get those funds and planned their budgets accordingly. Now, they have to scurry back to the drawing board and find ways to make up the loss.
Chapel Hill will have to hack $1.4 million. Carrboro will lose nearly $300,000 and Orange County will lose between $700,000 and $900,000.
That brings us back to the meeting between the governor and a contingent from the N.C. Metropolitan Coalition.
Local leaders from across the state - including Chapel Hill Mayor Kevin Foy and Carrboro Board of Alderman member Alex Zaffron -- lobbied Easley to give them back the withheld funds.
Though both sides came out of the meeting with talk of "good discussions" and "exploring future options," the reality is that the money is not coming to the local governments anytime soon.
It was overly optimistic to think Easley would give in. But as the politicos returned to city halls and town councils, they were forced to start making painful and costly cuts.