"The Vagina Monologues" is not just for women.
Contrary to what one might think, Eve Ensler's play "The Vagina Monologues" is not just for women. It is not a man-bashing rant. It is, as the title may or may not suggest, an intimate, personal reflection about what it's like to be a woman. The monologues were created out of interviews with actual women. Topics range from rape to oppression to sexuality to self-confidence. There is something with which everyone can identify. Some are moving, some are humorous, but all are real, honest, and significant.
The play is presented as part of V-Day, a worldwide movement to bring awareness about and an end to violence against women. Throughout V-Week (Feb. 11-15) the Carolina V-Day Initiative will present programs on campus that highlight different aspects of womanhood, including domestic violence. The play is the culmination of this week: the ultimate expression of who women are and what affects our lives.
"The Vagina Monologues" is a celebration of womanhood, both for the audience and the actresses involved. This does not mean, however, that men can't enjoy it. Last year's sold-out show had quite a few male audience members, many of whom seemed to gain something from the experience. Most that I know are coming back for a second time. I'm certain that most of you men know at least one woman. My guess is that many of you have, at one time or another, complained about not understanding women.
If this is true, come to the show. Come in honor of your mother, sister, girlfriend or any woman who has influenced your life in some way. You are likely to enjoy it, and who knows -- you may even learn something.
Jean Kerley
Carolina V-Day Initiative
