As everyday Americans, we quarrel with, look down on and detest each other. We refuse to look past our differences, never missing an opportunity to embellish those differences. We practice hate crimes, whether it's denying a person admission into an establishment because of what he or she is or killing him or her because of it.
That is, until we are forced to be just "American," like we were after the attacks against our country ensued. The difference between the everyday American and the fair-weather patriotic American is distinct and obnoxious.
After Sept. 11, no longer were we fill-in-the-blank-Americans (African American, Native American, Hispanic American, etc.), just American. Not a woman, poor person, homosexual, etc. trying to make it or to be accepted in America, just American.
In many cases it takes devastation to cause motivation, downfall to aid success and chaos to bring positive change. However, in the case of Sept. 11 it took too much -- about 3,000 deaths, destroyed American landmarks, lost hope and a really pissed off population -- to cause patriotism. And that's sad.
After Sept. 11, we suddenly could identify with each other. There were many "this shows us how petty we are" speeches, as well as epiphanies that we could overcome that pettiness.
Well, I'm sure many people knew better, but I think many actually thought it was possible.
Don't get me wrong. No doubt, after the Sept. 11 attacks, patriotism was widespread and commendable -- let's just say I wish I had invested in the flag business right before it happened. It didn't last, though. Months after, the "we are the world" sentiment became "we are better than the world." And we stopped caring as much.
The Red Cross boasts that more people gave blood between Sept. 11 and Oct. 1 than ever before in that time period but regrets that only 20 percent gave blood later. This is only one example, and I'm not going to go into every volunteer organization that has lost participants since Sept. 11.
The point is that patriotism in most cases is not as heartfelt as it should be. Many people don't care about patriotism until they think their democracy and way of life is being threatened or mocked.