Vaeda Sumey used the money she earned working at her local grocery store during the school year to buy her cap and gown. She keeps it hung in her room, unsure when, if ever, she will wear it to walk across the stage to graduate in front of family and friends.
Like many 2020 graduates, Sumey will not experience a traditional graduation ceremony. In North Carolina, a May 20 executive order by Gov. Roy Cooper limited all outside gatherings to just 25 people — much less than the number of guests at a typical graduation ceremony.
A senior at Cedar Ridge High School, Sumey is the first in her immediate family to graduate from high school. Her cousin, Chelsey Fairbrother, planned to travel from her home in New York to watch Sumey walk across the stage. Instead, last week Sumey signed a petition protesting modified “drive-thru” graduation ceremonies at two Orange County high schools: Cedar Ridge and Orange.
“They're seniors — they work really, really hard,” Fairbrother said. "It's really hard for them — they didn't get prom, they didn't get their last year in senior sports, they had a lot of things kind of stripped away from them because of everything that's going on. She's more so come to terms with it, that if that's how it has to go, then it's just how it is. But it's still heartbreaking.”
The petition, titled “Drive-Throughs are for BigMacs, not diplomas” was created by Cedar Ridge students two weeks ago, following the announcement that graduations at Cedar Ridge and Orange High School would have drive-in ceremonies for students.
“The pandemic has taken away things like prom, senior days, last days of school, signing yearbooks, spring sports, senior nights and other countless activities celebrating our accomplishments (we took it like champs and knew it was necessary),” the petition states.
The petition proposes graduation be postponed until a traditional ceremony can be held outdoors with necessary safety precautions.
"We have watched each other grow up and become young adults, and it would be a shame to move on from our childhood without proper closure. We want to celebrate, and say goodbye safely together. We wish you all well, and stay safe during this historical time," the petition states. "Drive-thrus are for getting BigMacs, not diplomas."
At the time of publication, the petition had almost 900 signatures.