Even three years later, the moment is still stuck on the mind of Tori Hansen.
In the 2019 Women's College Cup, a tightly contested title game between UNC and Stanford had come down to a penalty kick shootout. Tied 4-4 heading into the sixth round, Hansen, a first-year who had not seen the field in 110 minutes of play, lined up against Stanford's star goalkeeper Katie Meyer.
The young defender took a shot at the right side of the goal, but Meyer had it tracked the whole time. Hansen's face sunk into her hands as Meyer celebrated the save, and Stanford won the game on its next kick.
“One of the worst things is managing the absolute destroyed spirit of a kid who missed a penalty kick,” UNC women's soccer head coach Anson Dorrance said. "Tori felt entirely responsible for the fact that we weren't national champions in her freshman year.”
Hansen corroborated her coach's recollection.
"That's not something I'm ever going to forget about," Hansen said. "But I think I've grown from it.”
That growth has materialized into a breakout senior season for Hansen, who was named First-Team All-ACC in 2022 after commanding UNC's injury-riddled back line to the best statistical defense in the conference. Hansen leads the Tar Heels in minutes played and is one of the team's top goal-scorers, something that's unique for a center back.
Hansen's talent has never been in question. She's made plenty of appearances on youth national teams, and Dorrance called her one of the best players in the country in the air following her success on set pieces. However, when she first arrived to Chapel Hill, she joined a UNC roster that already boasted some of the best defenders in the country, including All-American Maycee Bell.
In her first three seasons, Hansen was shoehorned into a reserve role as a central defensive midfielder, a position she didn't consider a natural fit.